I am a beginner.

I really am. When it comes to writing a blog – I’ve just started. And there’s a lot to learn along the way: from choosing the right topics to structuring my thoughts, selecting images that fit, refining my language, posting it and then sharing with others, engaging in case there are some comments and checking on the most written posts to see where the interests lie. And I am only starting to be figuring it all out, while beeing ‘on the way’ actually. It’s a bit like trial and error thing. Sometimes I feel super sure and confident about what I write, and sometimes I struggle not knowing how the topic will be received and if what I want to share will be well understood. Plus, there’s this question in my mind: will anybody even make some effort to read it? Especially in the times of social media where everything tends to be consume super fast and slowing down seems to be the least sexy thing, at the moment.. But, I still continue to write and post. No matter the emotions that are present there. Because somehow I see the value in it.

And you know what, saying “I am a beginner” feels really both: freeing and intimidating at once. As we get older, stepping into something new can really feel way harder than before. We tend to avoid the discomfort of not knowing. And if you’re like me – a bit of a perfectionist – you probably want to get things right, right from the start. But the truth is, nothing great happens overnight..

This applies to everything – learning a new language, picking up a sport, starting a business or even working on personal growth.

Progress is slow. It’s messy. It’s unpredictable. Sometimes far from linear. And it requires patience. As well as self-compassion and the courage to constantly keep showing up.

So why is it that growth feels difficult? Because we live in a world of instant gratification. We want results now – whether it’s fitness, career success or personal change. And because real growth asks us to leave what’s familiar, even if it’s uncomfortable, and step into the unknown, where nothing is certain. It stretches us beyond our patterns, exposes our fears and strips away illusions.

Growth doesn’t happen in ease: it happens in resistance, in doubt, in the moments we want to quit but choose to stay.

It feels difficult because it’s real. It’s not polished, it’s quite curvy. It’s the shedding, the unlearning, the sitting in discomfort until something true takes root. But real, lasting growth doesn’t work that way: it’s not a quick sprint, it’s a marathon.

Growth can feel difficult because:

• We want quick results. When we don’t see immediate success, we feel discouraged.
• We compare ourselves to others. Social media makes it easy to forget that every expert was once a beginner.
• We fear failure. The thought of not being good enough often stops us from even trying.

Patience is key

If there’s one thing I’m learning now, it’s this: patience is the secret ingredient to growth. It’s the ability to show up consistently, even when progress feels invisible.

Imagine planting a seed. You water it, nurture it, and wait. Days go by and nothing seems to change. But underground, roots are forming. The foundation is being built, even if you can’t see it yet.
Growth works the same way – it happens in layers, often unseen. Until one day, you realize just how far you’ve come.

How to embrace growth with patience

If you, like me, struggle with wanting to rush the process, here are some ways to practice patience:

1. Accept That Being a Beginner Is Okay
   Everyone starts somewhere. Embrace the discomfort of not knowing everything yet – it’s a sign that you’re learning.
2. Focus on Small Wins
   Instead of obsessing over the end goal, celebrate small steps. Every bit of progress counts.
3. Detach from Perfection
   Perfectionism is a growth killer. Let yourself make mistakes – they’re part of learning.
4. Trust the Process
   Even when you don’t see immediate results, know that your efforts are building towards something greater.
5. Enjoy the Journey
   Growth isn’t just about reaching the goal – it’s about who you become along the way.

I know it well and I bet you feel me, too: starting something new isn’t easy. There are moments of frustration, self-doubt and impatience. But while growth takes time, the patience is what turns the efforts into the results.

So here I am, embracing the beginner stage, knowing that with time, with consistency and a lot of patience, the progress will come. And if you’re on a similar path – learning something new, stepping into the unknown, or just trying to improve in any way – know that you’re not alone. There is always somebody starting something new.

So what’s something new you’re working on? Is it connected to sports or wellness like meditation, yoga or any other movement? And how do you practice patience in your own growth? Let’s talk in the comments – I would love to hear your approach!